you can't just keep receiving love from God and then love someone back.
you yourselves gotta have an understanding of the nature of love itself,
and the next time love out of your own freewill.
there's nothing wrong getting inspired by God's love to you for you to love another.
because there are many different kinds of people with different sensitivity,
and to those that pursue truth, they are able to tell from your actions,
was that dutiful or private.
there are times only creative solutions can solve the problem.
a second-hand love can't come up with anything new but the same methods.
but an original love desperately comes up with creative solutions to save the dying.