sometimes in my words my "you" refers to an individual but sometimes it refers to an idealogical group of people.
This is just English and communications. I don't think it's anybody's fault.
But I think it's about variety of perceptions.
Believe me I will get the same accusation again in the future although being unguilty.
Cos it's not hard when you live in a social environment like this.
But look, I'm still smiling :) hee.
As what Aubrey Menen says of laughter being one of the things that are discernibly real.